Anew

If all the stars were to fall

Would this earthly place be so easily consumed in its entirety?

With the licking flames and burning embers set aglow,

The sight would be unworldly

The sound would create a cacophonous melody of chaos

A beautiful destruction

A perfect end to only create anew

"Boyfriend/Girlfriend"

When a girl and a guy are good friends it seems to always be assumed that inevitably the two have romantic journey because its obviously destined, right? 

Um, no.  This whole thought process couldn't be more wrong or more irritating, at least for me, it is.  Why can't a guy and a girl just be good friends?  Why does it always have to equate to something more than just friendship?  Why can't two people of the opposite sex not have an attraction towards the other?  Did we not consider this?  Do we create a little fairytale fantasy in our heads and only see what we want to see? 

Grow up, please.  Yes, life is all based on forming and maintaining relationships, but relationship does not equal sex.  Sex. Sex. Sex.  God, why is sex so important?  What does it matter if a person is a virgin or wants to whore themselves around?  Why should we pry into their business?  If they want to jump onto anything that breathes, who are we to stop them?  What makes sex so special?  I mean think about it, almost every living breathing being can do it.  Hell, snails can do it.

You want to know what is important?  Love.  No Love does not = sex, and believe me humans do NEED more than just physical contact! People who think otherwise are ignorant and are incessantly horny.  Also, before you go off assuming that it must be a guy who constantly thinks about sex.  That they are the only ones who get horny.  Yes, ladies I'm talking about us.  Do not deny this little fact.  Humans are sexual beings and it's instinctual act (don't let that get to your head though), it's something that comes natural to us.  Simple fact.  Deal with it.

Back to the importance of love.  When need so much more than what was explained in the above paragraph.  Compassion, acceptance, belongingness, simply just feeling like we matter, but no we get all wrapped up in sex, no pun intended, sex is everywhere.  We gain a childish school girl giggle when words like: penis, vagina, scrotum, masturbate, and ext, come up (once again, no pun intended).  Why?  It's apart of our human anatomy and masturbation is completely healthy to do. 

I just believe that there is more to life than stripping down, grinding, moaning and humping.  Let's open our eyes to the world and not our legs.

-Jaded_Lotus